Obfuscator

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An obfuscator is a masker or prism who is also a persecutor, and forces masking onto the system in ways often detrimental to their attempts to live a healthy life. The obfuscator may prevent the system from asking for help, or allowing the system to divulge any secrets, even when it’s clear that doing so is the healthier choice. The obfuscator may be unaware they are doing this, or that they are even a headmate.

Related Terms
This may be similar to a secret keeper, confuser, or shusher.